In Friendship While Waking Up - It's Not Easy "I remember when Carmen used to sit on my couch & we’d talk about love, work…the struggles of making ends meet (specifically how expensive cell phone bills always are). I always prayed for so much for Carmen, though, like her, I never was quite sure how it was going to be delivered. Alas, a decade later, she has it all right in the palm of her hands…that love, that career, those babies, ends are meeting. Yet, here we are, still staring at each other asking what, where, how…else?"